Tier 3 - Stepmom Survival Blueprint

The Full Blueprint: For the Stepmom Who Wants Transformation

Includes everything in Tier 1 and Tier 2—plus exclusive, tools to anchor your identity, renew your mindset, and bring peace back into your home.

You’ll receive:

• 7 Real-Life Scenarios

  Based on actual high-conflict moments that most stepmoms will face.

• Word-for-Word Scripts

  Know exactly what to say (and what not to) in sensitive situations—with your spouse, stepkids, and the biological parent.

• Bonus Guidance

  Insights on how to keep your peace, avoid common pitfalls, and stop feeling like you’re walking on eggshells.

• Nervous System Reset Toolkit

  Practical strategies to calm your body and stay grounded when tension runs high.

• Invisible Load Inventory

  A revealing exercise to help you and your partner clearly see the mental + emotional load you’re carrying.

• Loyalty Binds & Child Behavior Cheat Sheet

  Learn why kids might act out, freeze you out, or seem distant—and how to respond without losing your peace.

•  30 day Reflection Journal

  Grounded prompts to process pain, release resentment, and grow in wisdom.

• 5 Bonus Scripts

  Advanced conversations for boundaries, reunification resistance, and high-conflict moments.

• 50 Faith-Based Affirmations - Scripture-rooted statements of peace, patience, and purpose for your unique role.

• Printables

This is the most comprehensive and soul-nourishing option for the stepmom who is done surviving—and ready to lead with love and strength.

At House of Herring, we are deeply grateful for every person who chooses to support our work. Your trust means the world to us, and we want you to know we don’t take that lightly.

Because this is a digital product that is delivered immediately upon purchase, we’re unable to offer returns or refunds. Unlike physical items, there is no way to “return” a digital file once it has been sent. This policy helps us protect the integrity of our work and ensure fairness for everyone.

That said, we care deeply about your experience. If something went wrong with your order or you’re truly dissatisfied, please reach out to us. We genuinely want to hear from you and understand how we can improve.

We’ve done our best to price this resource as affordably as possible—just enough to cover the cost of creation and delivery—so that it remains accessible to the people who need it most.

Thank you for your support, your grace, and for being part of this journey with us.

With gratitude,

- House of Herring

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With love,

- House of Herring

Disclaimer...

The information contained in The Stepmom Survival Blueprint (including all associated resources, downloads, printables, story templates, scripts, and content on HouseOfHerring.com) is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It is based solely on personal experience, self-study, and lessons learned from navigating life as a biological mother and stepmother in a high-conflict, blended family environment.

This guide and its contents are not, and should not be considered, any of the following:

• Medical advice

• Mental health treatment or therapy

• Legal advice or legal counsel

• Financial advice

• A substitute for any professional consultation with a licensed physician, psychologist, counselor, attorney, or other credentialed professional

Although this guide references medical, psychological, neuroscience-based, and behavioral research, the information is not delivered by a licensed mental health provider, physician, psychologist, or attorney. It is not meant to diagnose, treat, or prevent any condition, nor is it meant to be interpreted as therapeutic guidance or legal instruction.

Nothing in this guide constitutes, implies, or should be interpreted as professional advice.

You should not act upon any information in this guide without first seeking the counsel of an appropriately qualified professional who understands the full context of your personal situation. All examples, scenarios, and suggestions are anecdotal and drawn from the author’s own life and experience. Any resemblance to actual persons, families, or situations is purely coincidental.

By reading and/or using this guide, you acknowledge the following:

• You are participating voluntarily and take full responsibility for how you interpret, use, or apply any of the information provided.

• You understand that the author is sharing personal insight and is not acting in any licensed professional capacity.

• You agree not to rely on this guide as a source of legal, medical, therapeutic, or financial advice.

• You will not quote, cite, or present the information in this guide in any legal or professional setting (including but not limited to court proceedings, custody cases, or therapeutic treatment plans) as a substitute for professional documentation, expert witness testimony, or legal argument.

• You understand that results are not guaranteed and that what worked in one personal situation may not apply to yours.

Every blended family dynamic is unique. While this guide aims to provide encouragement, perspective, and emotional support, it is not a solution or guarantee of any outcome. The purpose of this work is to offer shared experience and encouragement—not instruction, prescription, or advice.

If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, abuse, or legal emergency, please seek immediate help from a licensed professional or the appropriate authorities.

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